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How to Feign Your Life is Together
Have a signature accessory, clothing article, make up look, or hair style.
Have a fragrance. Make your hair scents and lotions match your perfume.
It’s okay to dine alone. Bring a book or people watch.
Love your hair. Research the best brands for your hair type and use masks weekly.
Your nails don’t need to be fancy, but keep them maintained.
Stay worldly. Know works of art, artists, designers, films, books, politicians. Spend your lunch break reading the paper or a magazine.
Crying is not a weapon. It’s okay to feel your emotions, but never use them as an excuse to avoid your problems.
Jealousy is boring. Love and appreciate others. If you can’t love them, forget them.
Boost others. Flatter others, but don’t deprecate yourself in the process.
Don’t sulk. Don’t let the whole world know your problems. If you don’t want someone to give their opinion, don’t share your situation.
Your life is between you and the universe. Don’t post your personal matters for others to see.
Don’t emotionally blackmail others. They hurt you? Let them know and then move on. It’s between the two of you and not the world.
Cook dinner. Cook dinner and listen to music, the radio, or a podcast.
Treat yourself to candles and flowers. Be your own cheerleader.
Take naps. Take a cat nap on a Sunday afternoon with the blinds open and the fan on high.
Drink your water, eat your vegetables. Take care of your body.
Never have time to take off your jewelry before bed, but always have time to take off your makeup. Your nighttime skin regime is important.
Mystery is beautiful. You don’t need to reveal much of or about yourself.
Never appear other than as you are. Don’t lie about yourself. Embrace who you are at your core.
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- Make a change in your environment. Seek out new friends. Reduce time spent with
toxic people. Find stimulating ones. Search for an environment that is
supportive of your goals.
- Plan in advance, in order to avoid getting overly anxious
about day-to-day decisions. Establish a great routine with healthy habits.
- Eliminate the unimportant. Focus on your priorities. Don’t always say
yes. Be attentive of how you spend your time. Focus on the essential. Don’t
watch too much tv. Ask yourself every hour “What am I currently doing and is it
relevant for my goals?”
- Don’t hoard. Declutter. Let go of things. Let go of memories. Let go of fears.
- Don’t be afraid to commit to what is important. Don’t shelter yourself by thinking that you
don’t know what you want. Don’t
daydream. Work on focusing your
attention to become an active participant in the world around you.
- Express your anger. Don’t act passive-aggressive. Exert yourself. Your
position is valid. Express your opinion. Use your anger to motivate you towards your
real desires.
- Exercise. Be aware of your body and of your emotions.
please make sure that wherever you’re at in life, you don’t treat it like a transitory period. don’t waste your college years wishing to already be graduated & have a job. don’t waste your single years wishing for someone to be in love with. if/when those things come, they will come in due time and they will be good. but there is nothing like looking back and feeling empty because you wasted literal years ignoring what you had because you were hoping for something better. while it’s important to better yourself and reach for your goals, don’t neglect the present because that’s where you are now and it’s your now that determines your future.
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